Sunday, July 31, 2011

A SMALL WINTER GARDEN IN SWAKOP - JULY 2011

Gardening in Namibia is so different from Cape Town, but I am learning, be it by trial and error but the fact remain I am learning! Especially about what works and what not. This is a summer rainfall area and having said that, almost tongue in cheek, Swakop I am told never gets rain, well this last summer rains really dispelled that myth! Rain beautiful rain and rivers running! I am a born and bred Capetonain, I love the rain and I like winter being winter not hot as hell like summer for two weeks and then you freeze your butt off, no sir, give me Cape Town rain and winter anytime, but keep the South Easter! Seriously though, it is a change, if you lived in the Transvaal you almost adapt faster I would think.

Anyhow, getting your garden to grow and the type of plants to grow is a total trial and error thing, that is if you absolutely refuse to have a cacti and stone garden, soooo depressing, and definitely not for us. I am a child of fynbos and green mountains, winter storms and rain, summer sunshine and beautiful veldts, four definite seasons in a year and no blurring of the borders of the seasons please!

Having said that I am here and I have to make this town work and try my damnest to get a Cape Town garden growing in Swakop, working on it, working on it.....!

So just to proof that you can with not so much effort get a fairly decent garden going despite the odds I have taken pictures of the efforts in our garden (our little postage stamp of a garden, with its tiny green lawns, but they are green)!
This morning we had terrible east wind weather, caused by inland temperatures being lower than coast temperatures, or something to that effect I am told, and the poor people in Windhoek have been freezing their butts off this weekend.

Günther is, as I am typing here, slogging away at cleaning the mini sand-dune in front of our front door and the sand which have blown into the garage and covered basically everything and that after we had the gardener here yesterday cleaning up everything so nicely, talking about throwing your money down the loo (filled with sand)! If you should leave this town on its own for a year it will be covered in sand dunes and no sign of human habitation in this area will exist, that is just my perception of the whole sand thing. I do not so much mind the east weather as after the horrific sandstorm, the afternoons are spectacularly beautiful, wind still and hot and sunny, it feels like you are in the middle of summer.


In this little postage stamp garden of ours we have quite a number of plants, my sweet-peas are flowering for the first time since I planted the seeds, I was beginning to despair that this is yet another flower which will just not grow in Swakop, but I decided to just leave it and now it is flowering. Just look at the beautiful deep pink colour.


We had lavenders in Cape Town and I remember reading somewhere in a book about Provence that lavenders like hot coastal areas so I was convinced that they will grow here (7310016) and I was not disappointed. The ficus tree seems to grow anywhere, and it is green!. The sunflowers are not planted on purpose, they are from the seeds that we give the finches, mossies and doves coming here every morning and afternoon.Günther has found a rock with a natural hole in it as waterhole for them and they are loving it, bathing in it when they come to eat.

I have a Mozambican fern in the pot on the stoep, this fern is my special pet, I nursed it for months and at some stage began to believe that it will never grow, till one day months later the first leafs came out and now there are a couple of new leaves coming out. Hope does not despair! This fern originated in Mozambique, my aunt in Johannesburg sent it to my mom by post, something they did all the time. In April when I was down in Cape Town I took a piece of the fern out and planted it, two different type of ferns, one Cape mountain fern and the Mozambican one. The Cape one did not make it (hope that is no sign about anything Capetonian), will have to get a piece of that again) but this one did and I am so pleased.


I was told by a friend's husband (Jenny McCourt) on how to grow clivias from seeds, and I took the seed from our clivias we planted in Cape Town and planted them (quite an interesting process the planting and growing of clivia seeds), I literally looked at the bowl every day to see if they were growing and was rewarded by little white roots shooting out from most of the seeds after only a couple of weeks. I planted them first in pots and then transferred some to the garden bed (the only one we have) and what a drama, Mitzi scratched them out all the time when he used my bed as a toilet! I could throttle him, but finally it looks like some of them are surviving and getting more leafs (I just pray Mitzi does not dig them out again, they are really doing so well now). I also have two in pots which seem to be doing really well, my concern is that it may just be too hot here for it, so will see how it goes in summer (7310006), have not really seen them anywhere here, so it may be a first!!

My lemon tree is doing well, although at the moment I do not know if it gets enough sun for its fruit, they are still very small but they may just make it who knows, he is full of flowers and once the leafs fall off I have tiny little fruit left behind.

They always say a healthy garden is when you have beetles, bugs and other friendly bugs in your garden, well our garden is full of Mai Käfer (ladybugs) and bees and all kinds of other little bugs. May be because we refuse to use chemicals at all. I have bought a lovely pink creeper, not so sure about the name, but they seem to do quite well in Swakop, winter or summer, always have lovely pink flowers on them, it is still small so will have to see but new leafs are starting all over - that is the sign of life, right?

Then there is the arum lily but this one is really cute, they are the small ones, almost half the size of the big one, did not even know you get that, it seems to be doing well in the pot in the spot where I put it as it is flowering beautifully so happy with that one.

I bought a grenadilla tree so that it can creep up the walls and I will get grenadillas, well turns out the grenadilla tree was not a grenadilla tree after all!
I was a little suspicious as Mrs Woermann has one in her garden and the leaves looked totally different from what I had, anyway one day Gunther called me and said he just wants to tell me that my Grenadilla tree is growing big green peppers,
never even noticed them, so now we are harvesting lovely green peppers, the little tree is full, well it has truly made up for not being a grenadilla plant.


A maiden-hair fern I bought refused to grow in the house so I planted it in the "bed" and it is flourishing growing big, I just hope it will survive through summer. My creeping rose is not doing so well I don't know if it is because I have it in a pot or whether it is just not the right climate, it is not dying but it is just not looking that good. I will get it some rose feed and maybe a chemical treatment or something, I love those little roses and hope it will eventually show its character and grow big. I would love to have iceberg roses, but not sure whether they would work here, firstly where do I get them, this is Swakop!

Well up to know I have found out that green peppers really grow well here, lemon trees seems to do ok, ficus do well everywhere, arum lilies seem to do well if you put them in the right spot, those little yellow bushes also seems to do well, maiden-hair ferns do ok in the garden (winter that is), clivias grow but not sure how it will go with the growing up into beautiful flowering plants will go. Lavender thrives in sunny spots and lots of water, cosmos grows beautifully, Conifers in the right spot seems to do well.

I will just continue my trial and error basis, but I believe we have just about reach the limit with this little garden, next year we will be building our house, which is closer to the sea, and not as dry as where we are now, so who knows maybe it is a whole new process of learning and trying. I so love beautiful green gardens.! No cactii for me please!

Till next time.

Sunday, March 13, 2011

IT'S MARCH - WHERE HAS THE TIME GONE?

It has been a while since my last update (almost sounds like I am making a confession) but do not despair it is not, time has just flown, Christmas and New Year has come and gone in a hurry and our first long week-end (Independence Day - 21st) is on its way. For some people (or animals) all of this excitement was just too much!
Christmas was lovely, the first Christmas spent at home in many years and Kim was here, David unfortunately was working and could not join us but next time. We had a typical Swakop Christmas, relaxed at home, fished a lot, ate a lot, drank in moderation(!) and visited with a lot of nice people!
Christmas day was spent on the beach fishing, braaiing and just lazing about and some people won fishing competitions, of which I benefited of course! Kim and I swam (yes I swam in the sea - when last did I do that, but the water was amazing), played some beach tennis and read and lazed about.
Gunther caught a couple of catfish and other than that we just relaxed, met Imogen and Co at the beach later the afternoon. It was really special having Kim home for Christmas as I miss her terribly, like so many of you all! Christmas eve was spent with just Kim, Gunther and myself and it was lots of fun preparing the duck
Gunther wanted and the gammon I wanted, Kim was happy with anything (good girl, well trained!) New Year was spent just down the road from us at a braai with Imogen, Wulff, Dirk and Uschi and some friends from Windhoek, had a lovely evening and the best was that our house was just around the corner.
Kim was with Maddie and friends at Gwyn's place in Longbeach, think she needed younger company by then! New Year's day we went to the beach, Gunther and Peter went kayaking and Kim and I did the braaiing and lazed on the beach. Soon it was time for Kim to go back again, the time just flew.




Namibia has had lots and lots of rain, it is so green and so lovely at the moment, even Swakop had rain, and I was told by all that it never rains here, we even had thunder and lightening, I loved it of course missing the Cape rains (yes I miss them - not the southeaster, which I believe is causing havoc at the moment)! Gunther and I went camping with Lynelle, Clive and friends at Ameib it was so green and beautiful and water everywhere,
Spitzkoppe was beautiful and the contrasts in colour spectacular. . One just cannot believe how green it gets and how quickly after the rains, the photos taken here was in January and now we have had tremendous amounts of rain,

it will still go on to April, apparently the south, including Sossusvlei, has had tremendous amounts of rain, Windhoekers are complaining bitterly about the everyday rain!


Of course with the rains you get damages, pests, our beautiful little green lawn has now turned brown (one would think the rain will make it go green) no! Apparently what we found out was that when the rains come, there are thousands of moths and beetles and everything everywhere (our cat's, whom I believe is a wild cat - diet has changed to moths, caterpillars, locusts and whatever else he manages to bring into the house - gross animal!) Well apparently you have to put 411 on the lawns as this will kill the bugs and worms eating the roots of the lawn, funny thing is the front lawn was not that bad but the back lawn went brown overnight! So we are religiously throwing 411 and hope that the back lawn will recover.

Inbetween all this I worked for a 6-week stunt, a hectic experience is all I will say about that lot, but I met a lot of people and was all over Namibia in that six weeks, either driving or flying to the North or to Windhoek, the first week I was literally worked off my feet, could not stand on them at night - luckily that is a thing of the past and two of us well actually three, came and left within weeks of each other - need I say more. I will be going for an interview tomorrow so lets see what this one brings.

All in all we are well, Gunther is having the time of his life surfing, diving, kayaking and fishing and has now even taken up golf with me, we ordered a how to on golf and will see where that will take us. We were planning on going away to Sossusvlei for the weekend, so lets see what happens, will keep you posted!

Monday, November 29, 2010

IT IS ALMOST CHRISTMAS!


Hi All

Well time flies, it has been a months since I last updated and a lot has happened. We are now nicely settled into our home and have literally slowed down to crawling pace, it has been a crazy year! So much has happened and who knows what will still happen before December 2010 comes to an end.

As most of you know, Günther's mom had a stroke and is being taken care of in the Prinzessin Rupprecht Frailcare Centre and is doing a lot better, amazing what proper care can do and I sincerely admire the nursing staff they are wonder workers and never gets recognized for their good work. She is still paralyzed on the righthand side and probably will never be able to walk or use her right hand again and the challenge always remains to keep the bloodflow going properly and for the nursing staff that is a challenge but they are amazing. They have a way of getting a laugh out of her that others cannot. She is really looking much better under the circumstances and always look well cared for. She sleeps most of the time but we think, or rather we hope that that is a good thing.

The budgie has gone flying off into the wild world, Mitzi throw his cage off the cupboard and after retrieving him, Günther bumped the cage off and I think by then Boy has just had enough and decided it was the best thing to get out of here as his life is in danger. We are hoping that he joined the avery of budgies that lives freely in the trees at Cafe Anton and will be happy there. Thing is we do not generally like birds in captivity but he was so cute but now I feel ok as he is free and hopefully amongst his own kind so no more feeling bad!

It is almost Christmas and for once I can actually prepare properly for Christmas, most of my shopping foodwise and gifts is almost done, well considering that it will just be Kim, myself and Günther, it was not too serious, but at least I will not have to rush around buying things at 99, well only fresh vegies,and hat else may be needed.

Last night we went to the Advents church service at the Stadtsmission, it was really nice (especially the cookies!), there is so much going on here now in Swakop with Christmas approaching.


Our place is really looking Christmassie, Mitzi helped me with the decorations, it is Günther's responsibility to get the tree, he says that since it is Namibia, we need to get a white thorn tree which is the traditional Namibian Christmas tree, however, I was more thinking in the line of a GREEN tree, everything cactussie and thorny is just too much for me lately but I did say it is his job so lets see what happens.


We even have a Father Christmas, sure hope he brings big presents (although he does not look like your traditional red-cheeked-friendly-faced father Christmas) and a snowman in the middle of the desert (Petra that is still your snowman - do you remember him!).


For some people the effort of getting ready for Christmas is just too much!! Günther was just home for lunch and was telling me that at the Brauhaus they have a big Christmas tree up and I must go have a look, you don't understand, in a small place like Swakop, that is a big event! Shops are running empty now already and I still need to get 1/2 things, thing is in Swakop you have to find out when new stock is arriving, and if there is something you like you have to take it immediately, if you go back tomorrow it will be gone so no "I will sleep on it kinda thing" it will not be there if you go back tomorrow.


I baked and am still baking some Christmas cookies, doing it in stages, Saturday I made Zimtsterne, they are really nice, but they are really not that easy to make and they are really expensive you use a load of nuts and eggs and in the end have only close on sixty cookies, but they are heavenly I must admit even though I have sworn that I will only attempt these at Christmas, the recipe I had omitted to tell you that you have to roll it out on baking paper or clingfilm and it was sticking to the surface and I did not know how to get it right eventually I went onto the internet and my Das Grôße Kochbuch and found out that that actually makes it a lot easy, in fact on clingfilm it is the easiest to do. A lot of effort but well worth it, this is one cookie I will not share so easily, my outydse soetkoekies, gingerbread men, etc. will have to do as gifts!!



I even made little gift packets of decorations for the Christmas tree for a friend's daughters with tags and labels and everything, I really got creative this year, it is just so much fun when you actually have a bit of time on hand!

The biggest gift is that Kim is coming home for Christmas, I am literally counting the days, if I was still little I could create and Advents calender and maybe the days will go faster. It will be so nice to have her here I just cannot wait. This will also be the first Christmas we will be staying at home, for the last 10 years!! we have been on the farm in George on on the river at the Orange or somewhere else (failing memory), this will be a first and we are quite excited hence all the effort with decorating and getting things ready.

The 24th will see us having a big Christmas dinner, I have a request for a duck from Günther (and I bought one when I was in Windhoek, it is a French duck - well lets hope it taste good!). I wanted a gammon and then we decided on a pork neck as well, we will have meat left until new year but it will be fun and less cooking in the days after Christmas. Tradition here in Swakop is a big family dinner on the 24th and then on the 25th everyone goes off to the beach with friends for the day to have a braai or a potjie, thus far I think we have said it will be a potjie, there goes the kilograms I have worked so hard on shedding - ahh but it is well worth it!

I will update a little more closer to the time and would love to hear how my friends all over the world will be spending their Christmas!

LOL - till later

Thursday, November 4, 2010

OUR LITTLE HOUSE ON THE PRIARIES .... OOOOPS DESERT!



We have finally finished building and are now busy with the finishing touches, which is fun but I think we have both had enough for this year and would just like to take it a little bit easier. I see boxes in my dreams, boxes being packed and unpacked and still it is not the end - I do not even want to think that in a year or two we will go through the same process again, but then that is life, change is good they say!


Here are pictures of the house, the first one being the front entrance and patio, previously there was nothing here, gate into the garden was on the lefthand side, the walls were low and there was only a path from the gate to the front sliding door and if you were not careful you could fall into the house instead of walking in, it was just so impractical and a little dangerous!


The front garden was previously a cacti garden, all plants with minimum water requirements, but it looked and was a brown and depressing garden with all kinds of stones and little paths, it did not work for us, we wanted green and quickly, and roll-on lawn was the quickest we could get green. Please note the first tree we planted, hopefully it will grow quickly and you cannot see it on this picture very clearly but there are lavenders in the bed where the trees are, we look every morning to see whether they have grown at all! The scullery that we built on is in the corner where the bin is.


The lounge and kitchen, the scullery we have built on and my little office space in the scullery, the kitchen, guest bathroom, etc. It is small but cosy, warm and sunny, we have green lawns an absolute luxury and it is more than enough for the two of us. I have already told Günther that I think we will stay here and eventually rent out the house we are planning to built, this is good enough for me and is in the more sunny part of Swakopmund, closer to the sea it is damp and misty and I think I prefer the more sunny side, the plants do too.


The lounge is small but cosy, and looks out on the front garden, previously with the low walls everyone could look into your lounge and we had absolutely no privacy - the walls had to go up and quick. The lounge was repainted as the colour they had when we moved in, depending on the light had a green tint to it and I do not particularly like green walls so Günther repainted the same colour as our home in Cape Town, much softer and warmer.






The lounge and kitchen flows into each other as with most town-houses but it is nice when you are cooking you have company and can talk to whoever is in the lounge (right now mostly Gunther and Mitzi - not much of a choice!)





The Kitchen is not too bad, there is room for improvement, for example the kitchen tops not ones we would have chosen but they work and one can get used to them. The stove is a free-standing stove but it works pretty well and is basically brand new, the cupboards are not too bad and the tiles are a small grey ceramic tile, not what we would have done either but it will have to do for now.








The Guest Bathroom is quite a nice size for a second bathroom, tiles are not too bad and the accessories are all white which is what we liked about it. The main bedroom bathroom has a shower and is quite a nice size for an en suite, tiles are similar to the guest bathroom.











We had to build the scullery on, without it we would not have been able to bring in the washing machine (which was in the garage), the dishwasher and tumbledrier. The fridge, before we built on was standing in the kitchen but it made the space in the kitchen so much smaller. The fridge is now in the scullery as seen on the picture and we built in the cupboards in the scullery, which is almost the same as in the kithcen. On the left of the picture is the spare bedroom. The bedrooms are quite big, the main and spare bedroom being almost the same size with lots of cupboard space.


The scullery is nice and airy and very sunny, it is north facing so you have sun the whole afternoon. As you can see all the machines fits in perfectly and Günther made a desk for me to work at. The scullery was a must.
Photos I did not include here is of the main bedroom, spare bedroom, main en suite and the garage (Günthers pride!) and the back garden, I will update at another time, just wanted to give you an idea of where we are living!
Till next time LOL!
















Friday, October 29, 2010

BEACH, CAT AND HOME - OCTOBER 2010

Prior to us starting to build we went for our last fishing and day at the beach trip! It would be a while before we will be free on Sundays, so we decided to have a last braai and relaxing Sunday.
That is the nice thing here in Swakop, you can go to the beach and literally set up camp and have a lovely braai whilst trying to catch some fish, the beaches are so long that you can be totally alone with no-one around for kms, we love it and it is my time to sit and read and relax while I am silently praying that today Günther will catch a fish. We normally go very early (yes 6 a.m.a!!!) in the morning and then start braaiing at about 11 so by 2 p.m. when the wind comes up we can pack up and head home and still have a Sunday afternoon snooze.
Here everyone is well prepared, with wind shelters, umbrellas, tables, chairs, fridges and everything, we normally just take the necessary, but even we are starting to collect more and more to make it comfortable out there, many people will stay over on the beach at night, but that I have vowed, I will not do.
Well what can I say, time flies!! No understatement, has been a month since I last updated my blogspot and a lot has happened: We have finished the final building and are now slowly doing the little things that makes a house a home!
That is the fun part and there is no rush, it can take years!
On the 12th of October, we have adopted a little Mitzi (who I believe is in teenage stage - terrible moods!) from the SPCA and he is keeping us on our toes.
I have forgotten what it is like to have a kitten in the house, Tati was so docile and did her own thing, this little guy however, constantly wants to eat and wants to be cuddled and demands attention, thinks this house is his domain!
Was actually quite scary though, when I saw him at the SPCA, he was so lovely and playful, he had a 1x2m cage with mesh wire and low walls, and when I got him home he was petrified, not use to high walls and he kept on staring up the walls, we thought he was a little mental, furthermore, he constantly tried to hide for two days I had to search for him in every little hole where he could possibly crawl in, especially in the spare bedroom as everything was stored in there during the building and had lots of hiding space.
His favourite place was the lawnmower tray, he crawls in there and sleeps, one Saturday evening, Wulf, Imogen, myself and Günther had to walk around the complex looking for him as we could not find him in the house, eventually we gave up and went back home, to find Mitzi looking at us through the sliding doors. Only the next day did Günther and I find out were he was, we heard a racket in the garage and saw him lying in the mower tray!
During the name-giving stage I thought we should call him Hodini! However, in the end Günther decided it will be Mitzi! Unlike Tati (I know strange names for cats) who always was fiercely independent, this one wants to cuddle up inbetween us at night, first night I threw him off the bed a 100 times but he just kept on crawling back and I thought, eventually, for either of us to get sleep I will just have to let him sleep there, talk about pajama drill!
The first week was trying we thought there was something wrong with him, as he was so scared of everything, Günther said he did not want a crazy cat - but I could never take him back to the SPCA, now he is settling in slowly but surely, still petrified of things and some people...... but he is getting more adventurous, he has now learned to climb through the bedroom window and has come to terms with the lawn, was a strange thing for him too and plants were something he has to investigate to the extent that I am now fighting with him as he is climbing on them and sitting on top of them, my poor yuka which was growing so beautifully he seemed to have taken a liking to!
Boy, the budgie also had to look out because he would run up to Boy and bump his cage but a couple of times' shouting and chasing soon made him realize that boy is not to be played with - one thing about this cat, he learns very quickly, a very very bright kitten. One day we put him in the bedroom and closed the doors as the painters were busy in the lounge, next moment we heard someone opening the door and out came Mitzi looking at us as if to say how can you lock me up - so now we lock doors! In the two weeks that he has been here he has crawled into our bed and our hearts, being alone at home he drives me mad at times but he talks all the time. He had his little operation to make sure he does not go and wander around and his shots, it is the one thing the SPCA actually insists on, soon Mitzi will have to go for another round of shots costing us a total of R600 on medical! Who said cats cost you nothing!
So the building part of the house is finished, it was wonderful not to have people here all day long, in and out and making a mess, it is the nicest feeling to have your privacy back again, especially if you are living in a small space. Some of the work was done very well others Günther had to fight and shout and insist they redo, mostly though we had some good labour and it went very quickly, however, never will I ever live in a house where renovations are being made to it! Insanity, you are constantly cleaning and washing and yet you go to sleep with the dust, with time you mellow and sort of deal with it but never accept it.


The best time was when they came to lay the lawn, now for those who have been to Swakop, you will know that greenery is a luxury, what with the shortage of water and desert all around, mostly you see browns and beiges and it gets to you!
Both Günther and I love green lawns, they day they came to lay our 30 square metres (front and back) the two of us had huge smiles, we could not stop looking at it, at present the lawn is lovely, Günther waters it religiously twice a day. The wind here dries everything out and you have to, yet you have to be careful as water is quite pricey here. They have sewage water that you can use for watering lawns, etc. only but where we are that water is not available, so we are grateful for the postage patch lawns we have. Never have I thought so much about the miracle of greenery, God surely knows what he was doing, it is so soft on the eye and the most beautiful thing - ok I know I am going on about it but when you look around you in every direction, it is just desert sand - ABSOLUTELY NO GREENERY! The town obviously has gardens, palms, etc. but other than that we have sand - lots of it!


So we are settling down nicely - a bit of bad news, however, is that Günthers mom had a stroke, she is 85 and we had to put her into frailcare at Prinzessin Rupprecht Heim, a lovely frailcare facility, the gardens are amazing for Swakopmund, a real English type garden, with poppies, cockleshells, kappertjies, roses, you name it and it is growing there, it is so beautiful and i could not believe some of the flowers growing there. The care given is also very good and we know she is well looked after, we do not know whether she will ever get better, she is lame on the righthand side and cannot talk, but she does recognize us, so we pray that she will get better and hope that she does not have too much pain. All this makes you think about the fact that we will not be young forever. Edda and Gerd came up for the week to help sort out all the papers, etc. another thing that made me realized one should be prepared!
Right now I am on my way to Cafe Anton, for cake and coffee, Edda and Gerd's last coffee and cake at Café Anton for a while.
Till next time LOL!

Friday, September 24, 2010

Estelle: My Vriendin op haar 60ste Verjaarsdag - 26 September 2010!


Waar begin mens om aan 'n wonderlike vriendin te sê wat sy vir jou beteken, mens sê dit nie elke dag nie, mens aanvaar dit net dat jy daar is en dat jy my vriendin is!

Mens vra jouself gedurig af wat is vriendskap eintlik, in vandag se tye sê almal hulle is vriende, ek dink, in die mens se soeke na aanvaarding en om te behoort sien hulle kennisse as vriende, maar daar is tog 'n wêreldwye verskil. Die volgende uittreksel sê dit baie mooi en dit is wat vriendskap vir my beteken:

Friendship
"A friend is always loyal, and a brother is born to help in time of need." Prov. 17 : 7
I went outside to find a friend but could not find one there.
I went outside to BE a friend,
and friends were everywhere!
Friendship lives in the heart
It grows in the mind
It travels in the speech
It shines out through the countenance
It pronounces a benediction to the
troubled soul
Friendship is a surety of peace
A seal of Love
A rest of perfect undestanding
An experience of joy

Ek sal nooit vergeet die oggend toe jy by Dr. Gerntholtz begin werk het, waar ek jou leer ken het, jy moes laat inkom .... en ons was so nuuskierig om te weet wie hierdie nuwe persoon is wat nou hier gaan begin werk, gaan sy inpas, gaan ons van haar hou? Ons het so versigtig versigtig jou van nader bekyk en daar was niks te vrese nie, jy was onmiddelik deel van ons en sou my beste vriendin word. André was nog maar in matriek, 'n mooi seun met die mooiste blonde hare en ek het gewonder waar kry die mense die mooie kind!
Hoeveel jaar is dit, ek is nie heeltemal seker nie maar dit voel asof jy maar altyd deel van my lewe was deur die GOEIE en die SLEGTE. Jy oordeel nooit, jy luister altyd en probeer altyd dinge van alle kante bekyk en verduidelik, ek bewonder jou vir jou lojaliteit, jou eerbaarheid, jou liefde en respek vir almal, jou geduld en bystand in tye toe jy my seker eintlik met 'n pan oor die kop wou slaan en sê kom by! Ek waardeer ook dat ek jou altyd kon vertrou met enige inligting en hartseer en opgewondenheid en nooit hoef ons vir mekaar te gesê het: "onthou moet vir niemand vertel nie"
- dit was net so!
As ek begin dink aan alles wat ons vanaf daardie dag toe jy by Dr. Gerntholtz begin werk meegemaak het, mekaar se trane so nou en dan probeer afvee het en bemoediging en aanmoediging uitgedeel het, lekker saam gelag het so tussen die harde werk en frustrasie deur. Jy was soos 'n ma vir Kim en die insluiting van ons in jou lewe was vir ons spesiaal. Jy is altyd belangstellend en dis die mooi van jou jy het altyd meer tyd vir ander as vir jouself.


Ek dink jy is seker een van die min mense met wie ek op vakansie sal gaan, sal ek Mauritius vergeet, ons plakkies was deurgeloop om 'n rand te bespaar! Saam het ons gebudget en probeer om die goedkoopste akkommodasie te kry en 'n paar Rand te bespaar. Hoeveel kere het ons nie goete bevoel en gewik en geweeg, gekoop en Maandag teruggeneem winkels toe! Dieselfde was toe ons in Londen by André gekuier het, alles was net so maklik, jou aanvaarding en tog subtiele manier van oorreding wanneer jy iets gedoen wil hê, maar met jou was niks nooit 'n "issue" nie dit was net. Sal ek al die hikes vergeet wat ons saam deurgemaak het, jy het sommer so aan die slaap geraak in die middel van die paadjie, ''n baie groot sterkpunt van jou die geslapery in enige plek!



Ek mis...
jou lag maklik en spontaan,
jou belangstelling in alles wat ek sê,
ons Saterdag inkopies (dankie Viv vir die tyd!),
jou bystand en bemoediging in moeilike tye,
jou raad,





Ek mis.....
ons verjaarsdagpartytjies wat ek dink jy of ek nie eenkeer gemis het nie??
ons baie lekker tye saam,
ons gesprekke oor alles en wat, letterlik die ure wat ons omgepraat en gelag en gehuil het,
jou tee, die beste koppies tee wat ek nog gehad het, ek maak nou nog die teepot warm en roer die sakkies...
jou resepte wat ek nou uiteindelik in my boek gesit het en dit sê Stella se Bobotie, ens.





Ek mis....
ja selfs jou ou brein skoentjies,
en 'n menige dinge wat jou vriendskap so besonders maak...










So my vriendin, op die mylpaal in jou lewe drink ek 'n glasie op jou (en ek gaan!), ek wens jou alles van die beste toe vir jou pad na 'n verdere sestig jaar en wens jou alles wat mooi is vir die toekoms. Vir my is jy nie oud nie (deesdae is 60 in elk geval nie) as ek vir vreemde mense van jou vertel, vertel ek vir hulle van hierdie vriendin van my wat menige 20-jariges stof in die oë sal kan skop wanneer dit kom by lewenslus en energie, so onthou:

Age is a quality of mind.
If you have left your dreams behind,
if hope is cold,
If you no longer look ahead,
If your ambitions' fires are dead,
Then you are old.
But if from life you take the best,
And if in life you keep the jest,
if love you hold;
n0 matter how the years go by,
No matter how the birthdays fly-
You are not old.

Ek is ver weg van jou op hierdie een, maar in my hart is ek by jou, en ek sit nou al dae en dink wat ek jou kan sê wat jou sal laat besef hoe baie jy vir my beteken as vriendin, jy is meer as 'n vriendin jy is familie, so ek wil graag die onderstaande met jou deel:

"It is Magnificent to Grow Old, if one keeps Young"

There is no reason to dread the passage of time. Age is, or should be, the rich and happy fulfilment of life - the shining consummation of all that has gone before.
"Don't be ashamed of your grey hair!" write William Lyon Phelphs, when he himself was 62! "Wear it proudly, like a flag .... Grow old eagerly, triumphantly!"
With age come wisdom and understanding. With age come many joys and compensations. "each part of life has its own abundant harvest, to be garnered in season", said Cicero. "Old age is rich in blessings".

All through history we find convincing proof that mental powers increase with age, that artistic and intellectual powers are often intensified in later years. Michelangelo was still producing materpieces at 89! Goethe completed the second part of Faust when he was eighty-two. Wagner finished Parsifal at sixty-nine, and Voltaire wrote Candide at sixty-five. Handel was still composing beautiful music, Longfellow was still writing immortal poetry, after seventy. Some of the greatest tasks ever undertaken by men were begun and carried through in what are called life's declining years. In "Life begins at Forty",, Pitkin points out that nine-tenths of the world's best work has been done by older people, well past their prime. "To know how to grow old is a masterwork of wisdom, and one of the most difficult chapters in the great art of living", wrote Henri F. Amiel in his famous Journal. This is truer today than it has ever been, with the life span lengthened and the opportunities for older people greater than ever before in history.!!


So daar het jy dit Stella, onthou net die volgende, en ek maak staat op jou:

remember that the greatest things have not yet been done,
the greatest discoveries in science have not been made,
the greatest advances in social life have not been achieved,
the greatest triumphs of the spirit have not been won.
They wait the coming of the right men and women.

SO YOU GO GIRL!

GLO JY SAL 'N WONDERLIKE VERJAARSDAG Hê!


LIEF VIR JOU!



ONS ALDRIE DRINK 'N GLASIE OP JOU!